Over the years, I have participated in many success oriented programs. One of my favorite things about these adventures was being assigned an accountability buddy. I found myself more engaged and committed to the process because of these partnerships and many of the people I was paired with are still my friends today.
Studies have repeatedly shown that you are more likely to achieve your goals when accountable to others. Knowing you are going to report your progress to someone else will motivate you to get things done. Another key benefit is that your wins will be recognized and acknowledged by the other person. This reinforces how good it feels to take positive action and keeps you moving forward.
Some people choose to create accountability by making an announcement of their goals or intentions. Posting your weight loss goals on Facebook or making a commitment before a group like AA are great examples of how this works.
Last week, I posted my intentions for how I want to be and what I am going to focus on this year. When the emails started pouring in, I became nervous. Did I really say that out loud? To the whole world through my blog? And then, the feeling shifted to a sense of peace. I now have all of you watching me and providing support and accountability for my heartfelt dream. How cool is that?
Whether your goals are large or small, having someone hold you to your commitments and dreams will increase the possibility of your success. I encourage you to find a friend, group, or coach you can trust to support you with accountability. When you make that commitment, the magic can begin.
You will not only create forward momentum and success, but you will also be increasing your levels of self-trust, self-confidence, and self-esteem.
What could be better than that?
